I'm sorry but you have to take the gloves off now. Firstly you need to document all Of this. Then contact an anti cult organization and try to get the name of a sympathetic lawyer. NOW is the time to do it with all the ARC stuff in the media. You need to point out to a lawyer the risks to a small child at the kingdom hall
*ARC
*Undue influence the BiTE model
*Shunning, what happened with your "in" family
*Risk to health re transfusion
*Risk to mental health, why two strange men are allowed to question your 2 yr old about your sex life.
*Risk to her mental health as she grows, what if she is gay, number of suicides of young people in the org, sexism against women,
*Risk of domestic abuse, girls told to put up and shut up in marriage
Try to get more access, as the JW are seen more and more as a dangerous cult to kids, please try to get more control over what they can and cannot do - for your daughters sake.
Sorry but this has made me furious.
I can't write anymore it makes me so mad. THEY need to watch their step THEY ARE THE ONES IN A CULT.
I had to copy this because this is the best advise for your daughter. Please get to a good lawyer and arm them with every bit of ammunition to protect your little girl against this cult.